Monday, November 29, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal

I am certainly grateful today for the very lovely visit we have had with Eliza, Matt, Theo, Ida, Hannah, and Robbie!!

And sorry to see it end!!

But grateful for beautiful memories - and that we will be together again very soon for the holiday festivities!!

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal

I thought I'd posted up until the 30th!! Alas my memory is going.

But it seems pretty obvious that I would be grateful for spending today with the Selanders and the Hamills - and for having spent the day with all of them yesterday.

I'm also grateful for digital cameras that are storing up my visual memories that I can always peruse!!

Not so grateful for the freezing cold weather and the north wind that has been blowing - but grateful indeed for warm clothes and central heat!!

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I am grateful for family reunions!!

Mark your calendar now for 2011!!

Friday, November 26, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I am grateful for opportunities to serve in the church.

And good people to serve with!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I am grateful for college roommates - who are still a part of my life.

Can it have been so long ago??

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I am grateful for Harry's family.
And that it is a forever family too!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I am grateful that Harry was born of goodly parents too.

A blessing that goes on and on!

Monday, November 22, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


Today is the 47th anniversary of the assassination of President John F. Kennedy. Regardless of your political viewpoint, his murder was a crime, a dark page in the annals of American history.

I was a freshman in college, and we were stunned and horrified at the news. It was like an end of something innocent, and an introduction into the sometimes bleak world of adulthood.

But I am grateful that our nation has a system in place so that the violent death of a leader does not spell anarchy and doom. Grateful that we can count on order amid potential chaos.

God bless America!

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


We are off to Virginia to be with some of our favorite people - and leaving others of our favorite people behind.

I am grateful for Ara and Ella - the oldest grandkids. I just spent a long weekend with them - and loved every minute of it. Such bright, hard-working, generous girls.

I am truly blessed!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I was born of goodly parents.

And I am grateful for that blessing in my life.

Friday, November 19, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


The days of November are flying by - and we are getting ready to go east. For that reason, I'm going to start "combining my blessings!"


This is a fave photo of mine - of "the little kids" as I used to call them!! I was a teen when Leslie, Donna, and David were born. I recall coming home for Christmas break my freshman year - David was 2 I think - and as I walked up to the side door, he came running out to hug me!!

And of course, those years when I was a playground aide in the summertime, Leslie and Donna would go to work with me at the playground. Those were good times.

And now we are all adults and all equals. I'm grateful for relationships that grow and get better with the passing years!


Thursday, November 18, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


My brother Bobby is the one in the middle. One of the things I love about Bobby is that he's still Bobby - and not Bob!!

Bobby is loving and kind. He and June care for their grandkids often. And when you watch them, you can see that they care and are invested in the lives of these lucky children.

I'm grateful for grandparents who care - and for kind, loving little brothers!!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


My brother Bill - don't call him Billy anymore!!

I really didn't grow up with Bill - I'm 10+ years older. But I have fond memories of "Billy Boy!!"

Bill is infinitely kind and considerate of our mother. He goes to a lot of effort to do for her. And he'll do for anyone who needs it actually. He does have "issues" - but don't we all.

I grateful for a brother who "fills the Bill!"

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal



Richard came to Utah after his mission and worked for Harry. And I fixed him up with his wife!! (The one and only time I succeeded in that venture!) And my kids had a lot of fun with their Uncle Richard.

We've been away from Utah for 30+ years, and we don't see Richard all that much anymore. But when we do, it's always enjoyable. I called him last spring about my mom's birthday party, and our conversation sort of "picked up where we left off" if you follow my drift.

I'm grateful for that kind of sibling relationship!!

Monday, November 15, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal

Here's my sister Mary with her daugther Tami. There are also not any baby or small child pictures of Mary - although I distinctly remember when she was born! Alice and I went to Grandpa Clayton's house - he was married to Helen Pratt then - and there had been a burglar - and we saw the footprints in the mud. I remember wondering if we were a movie or something!!

Mary was always quiet and pleasant to be around. When she went to Ricks College, she often came down to visit me. After Bonny was born, she seemed to come even more often, and loved to tend Bonny. In fact, she was Bonny's first babysitter!! I was nervous about leaving her - she was about 10 days old - and we went to the ballet. Harry wouldn't let me call at the intermission to see how she was doing. He said it would spoil the evening if she was fussing and then I wouldn't enjoy the rest of the performance!

When we got back home, Mary rather disappointingly told us that Bonny had slept the whole time!! Mary had been looking forward to holding her!

Mary is always interested in everyone's lives - and seems to have a great memory for events and other important data. She quietly goes around helping out - often after an event, when I am going through the photos, I notice that there are none of Mary - probably because she is busy in the kitchen - fixing or cleaning up!!

Mary is a wonderful sister to me - and I am grateful for that!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal

There are few, if any, photos of Mary and Charley as infants and very small children. This may be one of the earliest. It had nothing to do with how much they were loved - but had everything to do with economic conditions and taking care of first things first! (We almost look like "po' white trash" here - but we weren't!!)

Charley has always been a great brother. He was always cheerful with me anyway!! I do recall an incident when he hit me over the head with a rake, however. It drew blood - and so I got may hair washed and curled midweek - an almost unheard of treat. I soon got over my chagrin as I proudly sashayed to school with my bouncing blonde curls!!

Charley and his lovely wife Jeanette are really good about coming down and visiting with Mom and helping out around the place. They help spruce up her yard with flowers - something that truly brings her joy.

This last time around, they persuaded Mom to return to Utah with them for a visit. Mom stayed 16 days - and had the time of her life - I think she added years to her life frankly, she was that excited and delighted with the trip.

I'm grateful to Charley for his thoughtful care of our mother!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


This is my brother Lyn. It was taken a few years ago!! (lol) Lyn and I are two years apart, and we were pretty close. We sometimes double-dated, we rode to seminary together for a few years, he is the one who sent me a BYU application and encouraged me to go there, and while at BYU, he "watched out" for me - sometimes to my distress, I might add!

When Harry and I were ushers at the Tabernacle - for the Utah Symphony - he and Roseann often joined us - since we earned a pair of extra tickets for ushering.

Over the years of living apart and not seeing one another very often, our relationship was not at all close. But he came to my mom's 90th birthday party, and he seemed to genuinely want to change that state of affairs.

I am grateful for that.

Friday, November 12, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I am grateful for my big sister Joan. Joan was 4 years older than me and 6 years older than Alice, so we really didn't "play" together. In fact, we kind of squabbled a lot.

Fortunately the passing years put us at a place where we are peers - and we can love and enjoy one another's company.

And as a side note, I am eternally grateful for the ward cookbook Joan shared with us 33 years ago!! It's still a staple at our house!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I love that the title of this photo in my files is "Dancing Queens!"

Tonight the Little Women and Eve are having a Grandma's Sleepover at our house.

I am so grateful for grandchildren and sleepovers and snuggling on the couch watching movies we love.

Don't you wish you could join us??

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Daily Gratitude Journal


I have 5 wonderful sisters, but Alice and I were only two years apart in age, so we spent a lot of years together, growing and learning and dreaming of the future.

We played paper dolls together - it was a whole world to us - we saved our allowances to buy particular ones - a weekly trek to the dime store was a treat - sometimes just to look again at the set we were saving up for!! Our favorites were the movie stars and the bride and groom sets - so you could get males to be the fathers in the families in our paper doll world!

At some point, we started cutting out pictures of furniture, appliances, bicycles, toys, and other items to set up for our paper doll world families. We would glue them on to cardboard to keep them together. Then we graduated to photos of rooms - and we started setting up whole houses. We were so excited for the Sunday paper and The Home Magazine that came with the LA Times - it was the high point of our week.

These elaborate cardboard homes were basically flat, so they fit nicely under our beds - we had to be careful though, because Mom would sometimes get tired of the volume of them and just toss them out! But we would just start over again.

We were a little jealous of Judy next door - her mom subscribed to regular slick magazines, so her paper doll world houses were a bit grander than ours. Her mom also gave her an expandable file box to keep hers in - I thought that was the height of luxury. Maybe that's why I keep buying file boxes!!

Over the years when I've talked to Judy, she has commented that she has never met anyone but the three of us who played paper dolls quite the way we did. I tried to influence my own daughters to do so - but I think it's something that has to occur; you can't force it.

I am so grateful for a wonderful childhood memory - and a sister and a friend who shared it with me.