Can an old dog learn new tricks?

The answer is yes!!

I have been making jam, quite successfully if I do say so myself, for over 40 years now.  I am self- taught.  That is, I read the directions in the pectin package and follow them to the letter - as they tell you that you must - or they will not guarantee the results

We are having a crowd for dinner on Sunday - so I bought a large amount of frozen lasagna - and needed to find room for it in the freezer. I had a large amount of frozen raspberries in my freezer, so I decided to take them out and make jam - since we were pretty much out of jam - having given most of it away as gifts for colleagues of mine.  I am in the habit of buying raspberries and strawberries whenever they are going for a good price - and then I freeze them and mostly make jam in the wintertime - a much better time than summer for making jam, by the way.

Feeling industrious and virtuous, I proceeded to mash the raspberries and measure them out - 5 cups of fruit for 7 cups of sugar.  I carefully measured out 7 cups of fruit, added the pectin, gave it a good stir - and realized that the 7 went with the sugar, not the fruit!!

I was loathe to toss it.  Loathe to consign myself to an absurdly large batch of raspberry syrup - we'd never eat that many pancakes in a century, let alone a lifetime!!

As a teacher, I am always telling my students that knowledge is power - all knowledge is helpful - all knowledge is useful.  I said to myself, "Is this really true?'  Then I said to myself, "5 cups of fruit to 7 cups of sugar is the same ratio as 7 cups of fruit to how many cups of sugar?"  Buffy D. would have been prouder of me if I'd used an X for the unknown, but I was satisfied with my efforts.

A little math later, I figured out that 5 cups of fruit is to 7 cups of sugar as 7 cups of fruit is to 9.8 cups of sugar.  But then I remembered that there was another element to this equation:  the pectin!

Not to be thwarted, I opened another package of pectin and measured it out - it equaled 5 tablespoons.  So then the question became, How many tablespoons of pectin did 7 cups of fruit need?  I was stumped - math is not my forte.  I went out to Harry's office - and he solved the equation rather easily.  He said, "If 5 tablespoons of pectin is used for 5 cups of fruit, then the formula must be one tablespoon for each cup of fruit."  Thus it followed that I needed 7 tablespoons of pectin - so I added two more to the batch.

This story has a happy ending.  This "altered" batch of jam turned out just fine - just like all the others.  So much for Sure-Jell telling you that if you alter the measurements, they can't guarantee your success!

I feel like a regular genius tonight!!

Changing roles, changing places!!

When Harry was the bishop of our ward, he had dreamed of having a Ward Youth Conference.  Finally in April of 1999, he had his new counselor - Nathan Ogilvie - get one organized.  It was a great conference - we went to rented houses in Wrightwood over Conference Weekend - watched conference, played games, had scripture scavenger hunts, ate great food, played in the snow, and celebrated Easter together!!  Our son Harry helped with the organization and implementation of the activities.

And now Nathan is the bishop of our ward - and our son Harry is his counselor!

What goes around comes around!

Switching it up for the holidays!!

This year I decided to splurge and got a holiday themed comforter cover and pillow cases.  I was thinking it was kind of "over the top."  But as soon as I did it - I just loved it!

As Bonny likes to say, "Whatever brings you joy!"

And it's not like I can't use it every year - maybe from Thanksgiving to Martin Luther King Day!

First Christmas!

Our first real Christmas together - not counting the one on our honeymoon when we'd been married for 3 days - occurred in this little house in Provo.  The truck you can barely see on the left was a '41 Chevy three-quarter ton flat-bed pick-up with a sheepherder's cabin on the back - we actually drove it down to LA that year.  That was an experience!  (Let me just say that the windshield wipers were vacuum driven - and they failed - so Harry would stick his gloved hand out every so often to brush off the snow!!  The things you endure when you are young!!)

So now it's the 23rd - and our tree is not up yet - I guess we will do that tonight after Matt and Eliza leave - it's been much more fun to have them here!!  They return Friday night with the rest of our kids.  And the traditional Terrill New Year's celebration!

I'm sure glad we no longer live in the snow!!

Some holiday thoughts -

Last year the house was in an uproar because of the water damage we had suffered and the subsequent remodeling that occurred.  We did not put up a tree.  We did not decorate much either - mainly poinsettias on the porch as I recall.

We traditionally don't do a lot of gifts at Christmas.  Harry and I gave up giving gifts to each other several years ago, so we just got some gifts for Noah - who's happy with just about anything you get him.  Individual families have their own celebrations, and we try to make a big deal out of birthdays for the grandkids - who draw names with their cousins for the holidays and seem to love that.

And the big Terrill celebration is on New Year's.  We go on a big bike ride, courtesy of Bruce's fine collection of vintage bikes.  We have breakfast at Clocker's Corners and watch the morning workouts.  We have snacks and tiny hats and talent shows and gift exchanges on New Year's Eve.  We break out last year's predictions and chortle plenty as we read them - and then write new ones for the coming year.  Everyone sleeps over for New Year's and there is usually a goodly amount of Plunkets to be had.  (should that be "there are a goodly amount?")

So when I suggested not getting a tree this year, there was a hue and cry and a general consensus that I was being Scrooge-like in my attitude.

So I have repented and gotten out some decorations.  Even hung Christmas towels in the bathroom and got holiday themed Kleenex boxes!

Of course the carols are in the cd player in the house and the car.

And I'm once again thinking I might get all my cards out before January - a feat I have never accomplished!!

But mostly I'm excited to think about seeing all our kids together.

I love our kids.

I love memories of other Christmas traditions - the Terrill Family Party at Helen's, the Pizza and Pinata party at Grandma Mary's, wrapped boxes of mac n' cheese and dry cereal, new pajamas and matching tee shirts, golden walnuts, toilet paper roll angels, and movies on Christmas afternoon.

"It's beginning to feel a lot like Christmas!!"

On the 12th day of Christmas!

I think it goes without saying that on the 12th day of Christmas, I acknowledged the 12 Clayton kids!!

A gift that continues to give - day by day!!

On the 11th day of Christmas -

Can't think of a better gift than that of a wonderful heritage - the young lady on the back row at the left as you are facing the photo is the grandmother after whom I was named.  She died young - and I look forward to meeting her one day when "we all sit down in heaven together" as Lucy Mack Smith would say!

On the 10th day of Christmas -

Ten little 5 year olds at Phoebe's birthday party - and a wonderful time was had by all!

On the 9th day of Christmas -

Nine and growing!!  Now they are Terrills and Bolanders!!  Growth is great as well as "enlarging!!"

On the 8th day of Christmas -

Eight happy Terrills - now you see them, now you don't!!

On the 7th day of Christmas =-

Seven happy Terrills - well, seven happy members of the extended Terrill clan - I guess Dee is an honorary Terrill!!

We miss Jim - especially at Christmas!!

On the 6th day of Christmas -

On the 6th day of Christmas, no one was giving me presents - not even my 6 brothers!!  But it's good to have 6 brothers - and a great dad too!

On the 5th day of Christmas -

I could not get a better gift than the 5 wonderful sisters I have - wouldn't trade them for any number of golden rings!!  (The Mom is an extra bonus!!)

On the fourth day of Christmas -

On the fourth day of Christmas, no gifts were ever forthcoming.  But who needs gifts when you have the great gift of family? Especially four generations of family together - forever too!

No one gave me anything on the third day of Christmas either, but this is one of my favorite "three" photos.  Maybe The Three Muskateers?  Or The Three Stooges?  Or The Three Little Rascals?

Maybe just my three little brothers - who were indeed a charming, albeit somewhat rambunctious, trio of little boys.

On the second day of Christmas -

Well, it takes two to tango, now doesn't it??  Harry and I are that tangoing twosome I suppose.  No one ever gave me anything on the 2nd day of Christmas either, but I guess since we have each other, we have enough!!

The first day of Christmas -

No one has ever given me anything on the first day of Christmas.  But if we are talking one here - and we are - a Christmas celebration probably needs at least one tree!!

This was also our first Christmas tree - not our first Christmas - we spent that on our honeymoon in Santa Barbara - but our first tree - so I think it qualifies for the initial post on my 12 days of Christmas idea here.

Last year we did not have a tree.  We were in the throes of remodeling/repairing damage from our water leak.  A tree would have really complicated things.  I truly didn't mind not having one.  Our family comes for the holidays at New Year's time.  But when I suggested not having one again this year, I was accused of becoming Scrooge-like.

I certainly don't want to be perceived as being Scrooge-like!!

Remembering - once again - a good friend!

It's been 9 years since Charley left us.  I still often expect to see him - maybe as Santa at the ward Christmas party - or at a T-ball game somewhere or manning the sno-cone machine at Clifton.

A man "bigger than life" whose memory is always with us.

So thankful that Charley Graham was part of our life!

Thankful for Grandchildren!

As is often stated, "If I'd known how great grandchildren were, I'd have had them first!!"

Our grandchildren continue to bring us great joy and happiness.  Just today I got a note from Esme that said in part, "Thank you for being my grandma and for being a good grandma."

The blessing that just keeps growing and giving - having grandkids!!

Zim Zam!

If you're a Terrill - or related to one - you've gotta be thankful for Zim Zam - and all the good memories that go with it!!

Reading at the beach - doesn't get much better than that!!

Thankful to be married to a guy who loves reading - and the beach!!  A great combo!!

What's another brother or sister or two??

Grateful for Harry's great sister and brother - and his mom and dad too - although I guess I'd better find a photo that includes Pop!!  

When I married into the Terrills, I gained a wonderful "new" family that has certainly grown and blossomed over the years.

Looking alike

Sometimes I made matching dresses for Bonny and me.  A couple of times I made matching dresses for Bonny, Phoebe and me.  But I really had fun doing quite a few matching dresses for Eliza and Hannah.  They were willing subjects, very cute little girls, and I must say I enjoyed it all very much.

"Thank heaven for little girls!"

Following Akela!!

Thankful for all my years in Cub Scouts - and thankful that I still get to work with them now.  I am a Cub Master.  Porter came to his first Pack Meeting and said, "My grandma works for the Cub Scouts, and I get to come!!"

It was fun to work with Harry and Noah - and now Porter.

Gotta love 8 year-old boys!!

Thankful for college beaux who helped me discover what really mattered in a man!!  This young man was named Dee - and he was lots of fun.  But he was a bit troubled in some areas - I was young and romantic, so I didn't see the flaws right away.  But he wasn't happy for me when I had the opportunity to go to school in France for a semester - wanted me to stay in Utah where he was - and Harry, while on his mission - was so encouraging about my adventures.  

The contrast was telling!!

Even with total 80s hair,

I love her to pieces!! On this Thanksgiving Day, which is also Donna's birthday, I am especially thankful for her!

"Happy, happy birthday Donna dear, Happy days will come to you all year!!"

(Thankful for my great parents too!!)

:Here Kitty, Kitty . . ."

We have had 4 cats in our married life - Amado, Baby Kitty, Elizabeth, and Cosmo.  With the exception of Baby Kitty, they were exemplary pets.  I don't think we even have a photo of Baby Kitty.  But we loved the other three - and were saddened at their respective demises.

Cosmo was an especially fine feline.

So I am grateful for good pets!!

Thanks Mr. Card!

I am indebted to Bill Card for my current employment status!!  He asked me - many years ago - if I'd taken the CBEST.  When I said no, he told me to take it, and he'd get me work subbing.  So I did, and he did, and a few years later he offered me the job I currently have at Clifton.

What a guy!!

FHE

Grateful for Family Home Evening - then and now!!  What a blessing in our lives!

I love words!!

I have always loved to read and write.  And I had wonderful teachers through the years who helped me hone my skills.  And thoughtful parents who bought me an electric typewriter when I graduated from high school - in today's terms, that's like being given a new Mac or an iPhone or an iPad.  (Only mine came from Sears - but it did the job!!)

"Couldn't have done better if I'd picked them myself!"

So thankful for the wonderful choices in mates that our first 5 kids have made!!  Noah has some wonderful examples to follow!

"All the world's a stage . . ."

So grateful for the opportunity to study abroad - in Grenoble, France - for 6 months.  It was a life-changing experience for sure!!

"I love to see the temple . . ."

So thankful for a temple marriage and a forever family!!

Busy hands!!

Really grateful that my sister Alice pushed me to learn how to really sew.  And grateful to my mom for sending me remnants to practice on.  And grateful that Bonny wanted me to make her wedding dress - the mileage I've gotten out of that fact will last me a lifetime!!  (Not that I deserve any kudos, but it really does start a conversation these days!)

Other lives/other persona perhaps!!

 Phoebe - definitely "Queen of the Costume!"

Do thrift store finds count as costumes?  Or dress-up clothes??

 

Playing dress-up will never end!!

 

Is this "virtual" dress up??

 

I remember that dress!!

 

I guess everything counts as dress up!

Noah - the King of Costume maybe??

 

Phoebe - working it in to high school even!!

 

Not sure of the motif here!!

I am grateful for imaginative children and grandchildren who love dress up - things can't go too far wrong if we can still enjoy the dress up box!!