Plenty to Be Thankful For: Day 30

 Month of Gratitude, day 30:  It seems so fitting to end the month with memories of our beloved Charlie Graham, who died 19 years ago today. He was a blessing in all of our lives - a blessing we have sorely missed over the years.

But he left a beautiful family - and they are a blessing in our lives. I remember a month or so before he died, he got up in Testimony meeting and said he wondered "Why me?" Then he went on to say,  Why should I have such a wonderful wife and family?  Why should I be privileged to live on the earth now? Why was I so fortunate to find the gospel?  Why did I have the great blessing of being sealed to my family? Why did I get to become a grandpa?

We all learned a great lesson that day. And I for one have never forgotten that lesson.

Plenty to Be Thankful For: Days 23-29!!

 Month of Gratitude got put on the back burner! We had to take our computer in - and it's still not working the way I wish it would.

But we have been thankful for a lovely Thanksgiving dinner with Donna, some great weather on Black Friday - not for shopping but for sewing, a happy Saturday that was pretty laid back, a delightful Sunday at church, a happy celebration for Harry W's birthday, and tonight we celebrated Isla!

I may get on the ball tomorrow - but I need some instructions for the new operating system I guess.

Technology is a blessing - but it's almost a full-time job!

Days 21 and 22: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 Grateful for these good women in my life - they came at different times - and left at different times too - but they all had an influence:

My mother - always there for me - always encouraging.

Helen - raised a wonderful son to bless my life.

Marjorie - Dawn's mom - was soon very much a "part of the family."

And Donna - Happy Birthday to you!!

You are a wonderful sister - a real blessing in my life.

 

DAYS 19 and 20: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 

We actually have had 4 cats over the years - but Baby Kitty didn't really like us much - and the feelings were reciprocated - and he ran away the first chance he had - and mostly we don't have a photo of him!

But Cosmo was dearly beloved and we were so sad when he disappeared - we are pretty sure a coyote got him - he was older. He was very independent and refused to be a house cat. He was an abandoned kitten when we got him - someone just left him on the street.

Amado was our first cat - when Harry taught at the MTC, the elders he was teaching found a stray kitten and took him in - and we ended up with him. We had to hide his existence since the apartments we lived in didn't allow pets. Then we lived in a house and the owners were okay with it - he was not a house cat - came and went. 

 

He disappeared - we ran an ad - he got returned. Then a few months later he disappeared again. It was a sad day.

 

Then we got Elizabeth - from Paul and Sharon - they had too many cats - needed to get rid of one - so we took her in. We loved her for several years - then she got cat leukemia - we did our best for her but she didn't survive. The last photo is shot of her backside - no other photos of her.

 

So that's the saga of the Terrills and cats. Pretty sure there won't be any more.

 

But very grateful for the cats in our lives!!

DAY 18: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 Grateful indeed that we once had a VW van - I feel like it just sort of qualifies us for coolness! It was fun - had it less than a year - and had to pay extra to get seat belts installed - 1978.

We sold it to afford a mortgage and a piano. A worthy trade but it would have been nice to keep all three. And many years later we got a Dodge Ram Van - 15 passenger. So "vanness" stayed in our description!

It was a beauty!

Day 17: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 As a teacher at Clifton Middle School, I had the privilege of being the mentor teacher to a student teacher candidate. She was not a former student per se, but when I was a substitute, I had had her in many of my classes. 

I started teaching on an emergency credential, so my student teaching consisted of paying the tuition and having an administrator come and observe me a couple of times! After a few years of teaching, I realized that being a student teacher would have benefited me greatly.

So I truly enjoyed the opportunity to grow and learn myself as I helped Bailey achieve the goal of practice teaching.

The experience was a good one and I am grateful that I had the opportunity!

Day 16: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 When I taught at Clifton Middle School, there were 4 of us who had been born the same year. And so we called ourselves "The Girls of '45." And we had a glamor shot taken. And we went out to dinner often and celebrated ourselves. And everyone at school knew we were formidable!!

Ah, the joy of wonderful colleagues - so grateful!

Day 15: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 We've had a lot of weddings in our household - 6 to be exact - and they were all wonderful affairs. I could write a book about all the adventures and misadventures.

I am so grateful for the brides and the grooms and the dancing and the food and the cakes and bridesmaids and the family members who gathered with us!!

I do have more than plenty to be thankful for!!

Day 14: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 This wall no longer exists between the dining room and kitchen. And we no longer have a landline. And there's just paint, no more wallpaper. And the fridge is over on the other side of the kitchen. And I am certainly older and heavier - maybe even shorter!

But I am truly grateful that the good memories remain.

Day 12 and 13: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 Once again I am doubling up - and getting behind. I am grateful indeed for the funny things kids do - like putting olives on your fingers - every child does that - I wonder why.

And I'm grateful for photos so that I can remember those funny things kids do!

Days 10 and 11: Plenty to Be Thankful For

 Missed yesterday - had Noah's boys here and certainly had my hands full! And now Veteran's Day is almost over!

I am grateful to have grandsons who come and stay with us - they are a joy and a blessing.

And I am grateful for those men and women who have served so valiantly over so many years to keep us all safe.

There is indeed much to be thankful for in this life!

Day 9: Plenty to Be Thankful For:

 When we bought our house in 1983, there was a wonderful apricot tree in the backyard. The neighbors all said it had been there as long as they could remember.

I love bottling apricots, making apricot nectar, and cooking up apricot jam. We were in heaven for a number of years with a plentiful crop and lots of delicious apricots to enjoy throughout the year.

And then one year, we came home from church and our tree had been stripped! We are not at all sure who did it - the tree was in back and fairly well hidden from the street. We suspected workmen who had been in the neighborhood and noticed the full branches. But we wondered how they knew that we would be gone for 3 hours on Sunday morning? Maybe someone who had observed that?

We never found out. And then one year, the tree simply didn't bear any fruit - nary a fruit. And then there started to be lean years. And leaner years. And finally the reality that the tree would no longer be bearing fruit.

We took the tree out - it was dying. I bought  new tree - paid good money to get one with some growth. But it was not to be. Between a bear who whacked off some key branches and the deer who nibbled away at the new growth and the birds who pecked at the fruit that did manage to make it, there was not much left for us. I recall one year I picked a small bowlful of apricots - combined with a can of crushed pumpkin, I was able to make one batch of apricot-pineapple jam.

And oh, my, it was delicious. I was grateful for that little batch of jam.

And upon reflection, grateful for so many years of delicious fruit.

And grateful too for our wonderful sycamore tree in the front yard.

Day 8: Plenty to Be Thankful For:

 Grateful indeed for "make-believe" and how wonderful it is to observe it in children. I'm sure we played "make-believe" when I was a kid, but no one described it or emphasized it. Not that it is necessary. I suspect most children just figure it out.

I remember trying to facilitate it with my own children, but I'm pretty sure they would have done well enough without me. I especially recall a moment many years ago, when I was pregnant with Noah. It was a warm spring day and Hannah and Eliza were playing in our backyard, which was mostly dirt. They were doing something with sticks and twigs and apricots that had dropped on the ground. 

Hannah came over to me bearing an old pie tin with dirt, old apricots, and twigs pushed in here and there as birthday candles. "Oh" she said, "I wish it was my birthday."

Thankful indeed for make-believe!

 

Day 7 - Plenty to Be Thankful For:

 This is an old photo of my dad - one I had not seen before. My brother sent a bunch of pics and this was in it. What I like best about it is it's really the way I remember my dad in my growing up years. He became frailer at the end of his life, and that image sometimes obliterates the many years of memories I have of him looking much different.

Today is my dad's birthday - a good time to reflect and remember the blessing it is to be a daughter of a man who loved you and cared for you and left you lots of good memories to celebrate.

Happy Heavenly Birthday Dad!

Day 6: Plenty to Be Thankful For:

 Phoebe was a much anticipated blessing in our lives. Bonny kept asking for a baby sister. We finally suggested we fast and pray as a family for a new baby - since we had been trying for awhile. I guess Phoebe thought if she told people we were expecting a baby, I would make good on her assertion!

Phoebe's name means light, and her middle name, Elizabeth, means gift of God. She is certainly aptly named. She was in her little infant seat at church on evening, and our bishop's wife was sitting behind us. She tapped me on the shoulder and said, "The light of Heaven is still in her eyes."

I think she was right!

Day 5: Plenty to be Thankful For

 I am so grateful for Isla and her joy in the wonder of magic and fairy tales and always seeing good and potential. And I hope she carries this gift and blessing with her always.

Day 4: Plenty to Be Thankful For:

 Grateful for Harry the Son - not to be confused with Harry the Dad or Harry the Grandfather or Harry the Grandson or Harry the Great Grandfather!! Harry has done well dealing with his name and being called Harry Junior when his dad is really Harry Junior - we don't explain it a lot anymore!

But he's a great son - and it's been an adventure over the years. Harry has a quality of perseverance - when he gets interested in something, he pursues all avenues. By the same token, when he loses interest, he gives up the pursuit - but all these "pursuits" have made him the total person that he is.

As a little boy, we spent a lot of time together because there were 5 years between him and Phoebe. We played games, took walks, solved puzzles, and shopped at Grand Central!

Happy memories!!

Day 3 - Plenty to Be Thankful For:

 Today is my college friend Cammie's birthday - it is also my granddaughter Rhoda's birthday. But I had forgotten about it being Cammie's birthday until I saw it on FB. I am pretty good about birthdays, but the family grows and the circle of friends grows - and I'm grateful for the reminder!

I met Cammie when we were seniors at BYU. In fact, I think she had graduated - or graduated before me because she had earned a credential and was teaching school while her husband was in school. But I was a graduate student teaching Freshman English so maybe we met in senior classes. I'm not sure - but we stayed in touch for several years - and then we fell out of touch.

While on the BYU campus during an Education Week foray, I ran into Cammie in a parking lot. I was impressed that she remembered me. We stayed in touch for a couple of years. We had a mutual friend in Kay Lineback - and I mostly kept up with Cammie via Kay.

And then a few years ago we reconnected once more. It was a delight - friends from the past make wonderful friends - probably because we are all getting older and things are changing - but our past experiences have stayed the same.

I am grateful for friends old and new. But I especially am grateful for friendships that invoke so many specific memories. Times have changed. Much is different. But the past with these friends is the same.

And it's a past I treasure.

Day Two - Plenty to Be Thankful For:

 I am grateful for my daughter Bonny. She made me a mom - and there is something about that distinction that is really significant. She takes her role as oldest sibling very seriously too - and I am grateful for that also.

We learned a lot together over the years. I wasn't much of  a seamstress, but my mom would give me remnants of fabrics and I would make clothes and doll clothes for Bonny.  I recall how delighted she would be when I had her try something on - she never saw the mistakes - or if she did, she never mentioned them. She was always pleased with my efforts. For many years, she really would not take a store bought dress - I recall her high school homecoming - I was pregnant with Noah maybe or Hannah - anyway, I did not feel up to sewing - I said, "Let's go buy a dress." We shopped - and her dad took her shopping too - there wasn't anything she liked. She ultimately went with a dress that was too expensive - and that she never wore again - in fact, I gave it to my sister Mary - and when I asked Harry why he'd spent so much he said, "I was too tired to keep shopping - I was willing to go with anything!"

And so I developed a talent - one that would probably have not gotten developed without her participation! I made her wedding dress - really the last dress I made for her - but it was a lovely experience - one I am grateful for.

Bonny - what a wonderful daughter!

Day 0ne - plenty to be thankful for!!

Grateful indeed for grandchildren - and now even a great grandson!! I read a column to day that explained that retirees with grandchildren were happy indeed - they seem to give meaning to many lives. They do give meaning and purpose to my life - and I love interacting with them. 

Not everyone is fortunate enough to have many or even any grandchildren - through no fault of their own - so I hesitate to fulminate too much.  But mine are the biggest blessing in my life!

General Conference Weekend

 Drove up to Utah for Harry's mission reunion - only 14 people came - three had been serving when he did - the years take their toll! And I did not take any pictures!

Stayed at Alice and Dale's - they have a comfy basement room for watching conference - and it was a great conference.

Ara and Roger came Saturday morning - for a lovely breakfast made by Alice of course - and to watch the first session with us. It was so nice to be with them. And I remembered to take a picture!

We went up to Logan to see Frances and Dee and then drove home Monday morning. And once again did not take pictures.

But it was a good weekend!

Beware the Ides of March!!

 We had an Ides of March Party on Sunday the 20th - and we had a good turnout - and I didn't take photos - but suffice it to say, the yearly dramatic production of Shakespeare's Julius Caesar will likely resume now!!

Saying goodbye to an old friend!

 A Celebration of Life for our dear friend Mayla Brown was held this month - on the 19th - at Damond and Katrina's house. It was a lovely tribute - seems ironic that the loss of someone in our lives causes us to gather many together!! Mayla was a good friend, a good mother, a good wife, and sounds like she was the best grandmother ever!

We love you - and will always miss you!

Happy Birthday Izayah!!

 We don't see much of Izayah these days. Noah and Taylor are splitting up and she lives with her mom and doesn't often come when the boys do. But she does have a birthday this month, and we've scheduled a Grandma's Birthday Weekend for next week - I am looking forward to lunch, and shopping, and a manicure, and maybe a movie!!

Happy 12th Birthday Izayah - we love you even if we don't get to see you as often!

Some Birthdays to Celebrate!!

 David had a birthday on the 19th - and Esme had hers on the 21st - and we celebrate Ry on the 22nd - which was 2/22/22 - on a Twosday!! I know he would have been all over that combo!

Best wishes to these beloved family members and friends!!

A dear friend -

 February brought the sad news that our dear friend Mayla - mother of Damond and Reggie - the first friends we made in Monrovia all those many years ago - had died unexpectedly.

Losing friends is hard. Thankfully there are good memories. And photos help me recall the conversations we had and the activities we shared.

But we will miss her!